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Unplug: A Simple Guide to Meditation

A plain guide to starting meditation with ten minutes a day. It covers when and where to sit, the six-step loop of every session, mantras, and how to handle thoughts that keep interrupting.

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If meditation sounds like incense, chanting and a retreat you have no time for, the first finding here is a relief: ten minutes a day already leaves people feeling calmer and more grounded. In Unplug, Suze Yalof Schwartz, a former fashion magazine editor who went on to found secular meditation studios in Los Angeles, strips the practice down to what matters.

Her case is that meditation is a practical tool, not a spiritual identity. It asks for a comfortable seat, a regular time and a simple loop of focusing, drifting and coming back. The Harvard research she cites suggests that this loop can even change the physical structure of the brain.

By the end you will know when and how to sit, what to do with the thoughts that keep breaking in, which extras are worth trying when practice stalls, and a three-round breathing exercise you can use the next time stress spikes at work.

Two beliefs keep most people from ever sitting down to meditate. One is about who meditators are, the other about the clock, and the research Schwartz cites makes the second one much smaller than it looks.

Part of the brain normally shrinks as we age, and another part drives fear and anxiety. Two studies of meditators found surprising changes in both, including in people who had never meditated before.

Plans to meditate later in the day have a way of disappearing by evening. Schwartz explains why the first minutes after waking are special, and how an ordinary kitchen appliance can get you out of bed.

Motivation is unreliable at six in the morning, and a busy mind starts listing errands the moment you close your eyes. Two small preparations, one the night before and one with pen and paper, handle both.

Most beginners sit down and wonder what they are supposed to be doing. Schwartz turns the session into a repeatable loop, and adds a way to make the breath easier to hold onto.

Most people who give up on meditation do so because their thoughts never stop. Schwartz argues they have misread the task, and offers three images for the worries that keep coming back.

Silent breath-watching does not suit everyone. A tropical beach, a tree you can prune of difficult people and a bowl resting on your stomach all offer different routes to the same calm.

What Schwartz offers is permission. Meditation does not ask you to change who you are, adopt a new set of beliefs or find an hour you do not have. It asks for ten minutes, a straight back and a willingness to come back to the breath every time the mind runs off. The Harvard and Davis studies she cites suggest that this small, repeated act of returning can leave a mark on the brain itself, from more gray matter to a smaller fear center and less stress hormone.

Begin with the setup. Pick a time, ideally soon after waking, and lay out your cushion the night before, perhaps with a kettle within reach. Empty your head onto paper, then sit and follow the loop: focus, drift, notice, return. A mantra like So-hum can carry you when the breath is not enough.

Keep one tool ready for the moments when stress builds. Take seven slow breaths in and out through the nose. Next come seven slower breaths, drawn in via the nose and released via the mouth. After that, seven very slow breaths, with both the inhale and the exhale going through the mouth. Three rounds of seven slow breaths add up to twenty-one, and that is a short meditation in itself.

About this book

What is this book about?

Many people would like to feel calmer and think more clearly, but they picture meditation as incense, chanting and expensive retreats, or they assume it takes time they do not have. Suze Yalof Schwartz, who left a career in fashion magazines to found secular meditation studios, argues that it is one of the simplest habits a person can adopt. It needs stillness, focus and about ten minutes a day. Schwartz draws on brain research by Harvard neurologist Sara Lazar and a University of California, Davis study to show that regular practice is linked to more gray matter, a smaller stress center and less of the stress hormone cortisol. She then turns to the practical side: choosing a time, sitting comfortably, building a ritual, clearing your head on paper and following a six-step loop of focus, drift and return. Readers also get tools for the moments when practice stalls, from mantras and visualizations to guided sessions, sound bowls and scents, plus a quick breathing exercise for stressful days.

Book Information

Rating:

Genre:

Mindfulness & Meditation

Topics:

Meditation, Stress

Publisher:

Penguin Random House

Language:

English

Narrator:

Walter

First published:

March 7, 2017

Pages:

224

Length:

13 min 59 sec

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Who it's for

  • Time-pressed professionals

    Busy professionals who want to feel calmer and focus better but think they have no time to meditate.

  • Secular-minded newcomers

    Skeptics put off by incense, chanting and spiritual talk who want a plain, secular starting point.

  • Lapsed beginner meditators

    Beginners who have tried sitting still and quit because their thoughts would not stop.

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About the Author

Suze Yalof Schwartz

Suze Yalof Schwartz was born in New York and spent many years in fashion, working as an editor, director and stylist at Vogue, Elle, Marie Claire and Glamour. She later founded Unplug Meditation, which runs secular meditation studios in Los Angeles and offers the Unplug Meditation App, and she serves as its CEO. She has appeared on Today, Good Morning America, The View and The Oprah Winfrey Show.

Ratings & Reviews

Ratings at a glance

4.3

Overall score based on 187 ratings.

What people think

Listeners find this book to be an excellent starting point for meditation, as it distills the practice into six straightforward steps and offers plenty of scientific evidence to back its claims. Additionally, the writing is clear with uncomplicated guidance, and listeners value the approachable stories and heartfelt examples of motivation found throughout. They also commend the thorough look at different meditation styles, noting that the experience is both immersive and enjoyable.

Top reviews

Lily

Finally got around to reading this, and it’s a total game-changer for someone who can’t sit still. I have always felt intimidated by the mystical side of meditation, but Suze Yalof Schwartz strips all that away to reveal a practice that is actually doable for normal people. The book breaks everything down into six simple steps that make sense, even when your brain is going a million miles an hour. I especially loved the relatable anecdotes and the warmhearted stories of people who transformed their lives just by taking a few minutes to breathe. Not gonna lie, I was a skeptic too, but the way she frames meditation as a biological necessity rather than a religious ritual really clicked for me. It’s fun, engaging, and doesn’t require you to sit in a lotus position for an hour. If you’ve struggled to start a habit, this is the entry point you need.

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Sudarat

What a delightful surprise! Most meditation books feel like dry academic textbooks, but this one reads like a fun, engaging conversation with a very stylish friend. I’ve been trying to find a way into mindfulness for years, and this is the first book that didn't make me feel like I was doing it wrong. Schwartz explains that you can meditate anywhere—standing in line at the grocery store or even at Starbucks—which took all the pressure off. The scientific insights she shares provide a great backbone to the more anecdotal stories. It’s an easy, fun, and genuinely inspiring read that I plan to buy for several friends this Christmas. It truly is the perfect guide for the modern soul seeker who wants results without the rigid rules.

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Wachira

Picked this up on a whim at the airport and ended up finishing it before I landed. The 'Unplug' method is exactly what I needed: simple, direct, and effective. I particularly enjoyed the chapter on the 'obsession obliterator' meditation, which has already helped me manage my work-related anxiety. Schwartz’s background in fashion gives her a unique perspective, making the book feel very relevant to a modern, fast-paced lifestyle. The stories of inspiration throughout the book are genuinely moving and provide that extra nudge of motivation to keep going. Some might find her tone a bit 'valley-girl,' but I found it refreshing and un-stuffy. It’s a comprehensive overview of techniques that doesn't feel overwhelming. This is the first time I’ve actually felt excited about my meditation practice.

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Landon

As someone who always thought meditation was for people with way more patience than me, this was refreshing. Schwartz uses her background as a fashion editor to bring a certain 'Today Show' energy to the topic, which makes it an incredibly quick and easy read. To be fair, the first half is a bit chatty and focuses heavily on her own journey, but once you get to the actual techniques, it becomes very practical. I found the 'Starbucks meditation' and the car-based exercises surprisingly helpful for my daily commute. The instructions are straightforward and don't get bogged down in rigid rules about how to sit or how long to go. It’s a Western-friendly primer that fits into a busy schedule perfectly. It might be a little too 'twee' for some, but for a modern soul seeker who is short on time, it’s a solid resource.

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Pla

Ever wonder why meditation feels so intimidating? Schwartz strips away all the distracting mumbo-jumbo and makes it as easy as brushing your teeth. I’ve read plenty of books on Buddhism that left me more confused than when I started, but 'Unplug' is different because it treats meditation like a simple brain exercise. The 6-step method is brilliant in its simplicity. I really appreciated the wealth of scientific research mentioned—it gave me the 'logic' my brain needed to finally commit to a routine. My only gripe is that it leans a bit too hard into the LA lifestyle, which doesn't always translate to those of us living in the real world. Still, the core message is powerful. It’s a no-nonsense guide that actually works for skeptics.

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Vera

After hearing about 'Unplug' on a podcast, I decided to give it a shot despite my busy-brained nature. I’m glad I did! The book is formatted beautifully and the directions are so straightforward that you can start practicing the very same day. Personally, I loved the 'traffic jam' meditation because that is exactly when my stress levels peak. The author’s voice is warm and encouraging, like a friend giving you the inside scoop on a secret wellness hack. It’s definitely geared toward a specific demographic—the 'Goop-reading' types mentioned in other reviews—but the underlying techniques are solid. While I could have done with fewer testimonials from her studio members, the actual guided portions are effective. It’s a great gift for anyone who claims they 'don't have time' to meditate.

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Man

The truth is, there is a helpful book buried inside this 200-page advertisement for a California studio. I really wanted to love the 'modern soul seeker' angle, but the author spends so much time talking about her transition from her stressful job that the actual meditation advice feels like an afterthought. You get about fifteen pages of real content, including a few interesting techniques like the 'obsession obliterator.' Her tone is very conversational and approachable, making it an easy read for a weekend. However, the lack of data backing up the grander claims left me feeling a bit unconvinced. If you are brand new to the concept and want something that doesn't feel like a dusty textbook, you might enjoy this. Just be prepared to skim through a lot of self-congratulatory anecdotes and testimonials from her studio clients.

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Orathai

Look, I appreciate the attempt to modernize an ancient practice, but the execution here is a bit hit-or-miss. On one hand, the conversational tone makes the subject matter very accessible, and the six steps are easy to memorize. On the other hand, the book is peppered with name-dropping and anecdotes that feel a bit vain. Is it a good entry point? Yes. Is it a comprehensive guide? Not really. It’s a very quick read, but you’ll find yourself skipping large sections of fluff to get to the actual instructions. I liked the inclusion of meditations for children, as that’s a nice touch for parents. It’s a decent primer, but it lacks the depth of other mindfulness books I’ve encountered recently. A bit too much style over substance for my taste.

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Sophia

This book felt more like a 200-page brochure for the author's LA studio than a legitimate guide to mindfulness. While I appreciate the attempt to make meditation accessible for the 'type-A' crowd, the constant name-dropping of celebrities and fashion industry elites became exhausting very quickly. Most of the content is filler, and you could probably get the same information from a ten-minute podcast episode or a single blog post. Frankly, the 'simple formula' she proposes feels a bit like she just took ancient traditions, stripped them of their soul, and rebranded them for the Goop audience. There are some useful bits, like the aromatherapy ideas, but they are buried under mountains of self-promotion and 'trust me' claims that lack any real citations. If you want to learn the history or the deep science of the practice, look elsewhere. This is meditation-lite at best.

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Kiattisak

Not what I expected at all. I was looking for a deep dive into mindfulness, but instead, I got a series of superficial stories about fashion editors and 'weight loss meditations.' The author is completely dismissive of the non-Western traditions that actually gave us these practices, which felt incredibly disrespectful and culturally shallow. It reads like a long-form ad for her 'Unplug Meditation Studio' in LA. To be honest, including things like crystal healing and chakra balancing in a book marketed to 'skeptics' is a bizarre choice that undermined her credibility for me. The writing is glib and the content is paper-thin. You could learn more from a free app than you will from this overpriced marketing deck. Save your money and go to the library for something with actual substance.

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Questions about this book

Schwartz argues that meditation is a practical tool for a calmer, more focused life rather than a strange spiritual practice. It fits any lifestyle and needs only stillness and focus. Ten minutes a day is enough to start feeling the benefits, and brain research by Harvard neurologist Sara Lazar suggests regular practice is linked to more gray matter and a smaller amygdala, the region tied to stress and fear.

First, choose a point of focus such as the breath, an object or a mantra. Second, reach a point of focusing on nothing. Third, rest in a thought-free sense of peace, for a second or much longer. Fourth, a thought interrupts. Fifth, notice it, let it go and return to your focus. Sixth, repeat the cycle from step two for the rest of the session.

According to Schwartz, you don’t need to stop them. Meditation means letting thoughts pass without engaging and returning to your breath or mantra each time you drift. How often you get distracted does not matter. For recurring thoughts she suggests visualizations: leaves carried off by a river, clouds drifting out of sight, or passengers on a train whose steady rumble is your breathing.

Schwartz favors the morning. She says that just after waking, the brain still sits in its theta rhythm and is especially easy to shape, and an early session gets done before work and errands crowd it out. She does not insist, though: lunch or bedtime works if it suits you. To make mornings easier, prepare your space the night before and keep an electric kettle by the bed.

Schwartz offers a three-round breathing exercise. Take seven slow breaths in and out through the nose. After that, slow the pace further for seven more breaths, drawing air in via the nose and letting it out via the mouth. Finish with seven very slow breaths, inhaling and exhaling through the mouth. It takes only a few minutes and can be done at a desk or anywhere stress builds.

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