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Thick: And Other Essays

Sociologist Tressie McMillan Cottom uses her own life as a Black woman to show how race, class and gender combine to decide who is believed, heard, protected and called beautiful, and how to make room for them.

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If race, class and gender feel like separate debates, each with its own headlines, Thick shows how they work as one machine. In this essay collection, sociologist Tressie McMillan Cottom argues that women cannot defeat patriarchy without also defeating racism and capitalism, because for Black women the three arrive together. Her method is to treat her own position, a working-class Black woman from the American South long told she was too much, as a lens on the whole society.

From there she shows who gets believed, who gets heard, who gets protected and who gets called beautiful, and why the answers so rarely favor women like her. The scenes run from a delivery room to a newspaper column about sandwiches. What the listener gains is a way of reading everyday moments that exposes who is missing from them, and a reason to go looking for those voices.

A stranger’s flirting line at a bar gave a sociologist the word for her whole life. It also handed her a method that changes how two identical tears can mean opposite things.

An elderly neighbor fought a welfare office for a year and lost. One afternoon, a borrowed sense of style won the case, and the reason says a lot about who gets heard.

A famous columnist once filled a prized newspaper slot with thoughts on lunch. Picture a Black woman pitching her own everyday worries to the same editors, and the imbalance becomes hard to ignore.

A tennis champion and a sociologist both told medical staff something was badly wrong. Neither was believed at first. The same doubt follows Black women out of the hospital and into the dinner party.

The life stories of admired Black women kept hiding the same childhood wound. Surveys of public attitudes, and even the way police photograph injuries, help explain why it happens so often.

A pop star’s awards show performance looked like harmless spectacle. Look at who stood behind her, and what they were there to do, and beauty starts to look like a way of handing out advantage.

Many Americans read one election as the end of an old order and the next as a shock. McMillan Cottom saw both coming, and her reasons start at a campaign party in Charlotte.

The thickness McMillan Cottom once tried to diet away turns out to be her sharpest tool. From where race, class and gender meet, she sees what a thinner view misses: a camel cape winning benefits in an afternoon, heavy bleeding waved off as spotting before a daughter who lived only moments, a sandwich column filling space a Black woman would rarely be given. Each scene looks small. Read in context, each shows capitalism, racism and misogyny working together to take beauty, credibility and sometimes life itself from Black women.

Her essays invite everyone else to grow thicker as well, holding a situation in its full complexity before judging it. Most of us benefit from some privilege of class, race or gender, often more than one. The practice she supports is to seek out voices unlike your own, especially people living with racism, misogyny and poverty, and listen until your own advantages come into view. Then act on what you see by making room, in the meeting, the publication or the exam room, for the person most likely to be doubted.

A stranger at a bar called her thick. She turned the word into a way of seeing.

About this book

What is this book about?

Feminism is popular, but the version that gets the most attention often puts wealthy women, white women or both, along with celebrities, at its center. Tressie McMillan Cottom, a sociologist from a working-class African American background, argues that this kind of feminism cannot win on its own. Patriarchy, she contends, can only be beaten together with racism and capitalism, because Black women meet all three at the same time. Her tool is thickness. A man at a bar once told her that everything about her was thick, and she turned the word into a method. She borrows thick description from the social sciences, the idea that behavior only makes sense in context, and uses her own position as a lens on American life. The essays move from her mother's best outfit at a welfare office to a newspaper column about sandwiches, a near-fatal childbirth, a pop star's awards show and two presidential elections. Readers get a sharper way to read everyday scenes, a clear view of how bias shapes credibility, safety and beauty, and a practical habit to take away: seek out the voices of people the mainstream rarely hears.

Book Information

Rating:

Genre:

Social Issues

Topics:

Gender, Inequality, Race

Publisher:

New Press

Language:

English, ไทย

Narrator:

Hannah

First published:

January 8, 2019

Pages:

248

Length:

14 min 21 sec

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Who it's for

  • Wanting intersectional feminism

    Readers who follow feminism and want a version that takes race and class seriously.

  • Deciding who's taken seriously

    Managers, editors, teachers and health workers who decide whose word, pain or work gets taken seriously.

  • Told they're too much

    Anyone who has been told they are too much and wants a sharper way to read the world.

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About the Author

Tressie McMillan Cottom

Tressie McMillan Cottom is an American writer, sociologist and professor. She taught at Virginia Commonwealth University before joining the School of Information and Library Science at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, and she writes an opinion column for The New York Times. She has also written Lower Ed, a book that examines for-profit colleges. Thick was a finalist for the 2019 National Book Award in Non-Fiction, and her essays have appeared in The Atlantic, Slate and The Washington Post. She received a MacArthur Fellowship in 2020 and co-hosts the podcast Hear to Slay with Roxane Gay.

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4.2

Overall score based on 37 ratings.

What people think

Listeners find this essay collection absorbing and masterfully composed, full of notable insights and addressing vital subjects. The work is commended for its intense emotional resonance, with one listener explaining how it transformed their outlook on several topics, alongside its candid handling of complicated issues. Listeners also value the humor and lucidity, with one review emphasizing the book's efficient use of succinct phrasing.

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Koi

Finally got around to reading Tressie McMillan Cottom, and my brain is still buzzing from the sheer intellectual force of these essays. She connects disparate threads of sociology and pop culture with a precision that makes you feel like you’re finally seeing the world in high definition. I specifically loved her ability to write 'the turn'—that moment in an essay where the argument shifts into something much deeper and more systemic. While the prose is dense and requires your full attention, it rewards the effort with profound insights into black womanhood and capitalist logic. It isn't just a book; it’s a masterclass in cultural criticism.

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Mind

Wow, 'Dying to be Competent' is an essay that will stay with me for the rest of my life. The way Cottom weaves her personal tragedy with a searing indictment of how medical systems fail black women is nothing short of devastating. To be fair, some of the more academic chapters took me a minute to parse because the language is so deliberate and thick with theory. However, the emotional weight and the clarity of her logic regarding beauty and worth are undeniable. She doesn't cater to a white audience or try to make her truths more palatable, which is exactly why this collection feels so vital and urgent right now.

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Prayoon

After hearing so much buzz about this being a National Book Award finalist, I had high expectations, and Cottom absolutely delivered. She has this incredible way of deconstructing the neoliberal idea of beauty, forcing the reader to look at who actually profits from these standards rather than just 'feeling pretty.' It’s a dense read—I actually had to go back and reread several paragraphs to make sure I caught every nuance—but the wit keeps it from feeling like a dry textbook. Fans of Brittney Cooper or Roxane Gay will find a lot to love here. It’s easily one of the most challenging and rewarding books I’ve picked up this year.

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Cooper

Ever wonder why certain voices are elevated in prestige publications while others are sidelined? Cottom’s final essay rants—in the best way possible—about the gatekeeping in media and the absurdity of who we consider 'experts.' I found her take on Thomas Friedman and his taxi driver anecdotes to be particularly hilarious and spot-on. While I didn't agree with every single conclusion she drew, her perspective is so grounded in sociological expertise that you have to respect the hustle. Some parts are a bit repetitive, and the density can be overwhelming, but the overall impact of the collection is powerful.

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Ern

Tressie McMillan Cottom is a force of nature. This book is thick with intelligence, wit, and a refreshing lack of apologies for existing as a black woman in a society that tries to shrink her. I loved how she tackled the election of Trump and the concept of 'whiteness' as a form of capital. Her voice is so distinct and authoritative that you can almost hear her speaking the words off the page. It’s not an easy read, and you shouldn’t expect it to be, but it is deeply rewarding if you’re willing to sit with the discomfort her analysis often provides. Highly recommended for anyone who wants a serious intellectual challenge.

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Zoe

Picked this up on a whim and ended up finishing it in two sittings because I couldn't stop thinking about her arguments. McMillan Cottom has this way of exposing the 'hidden' rules of society that make you question everything you thought you knew about meritocracy and agency. The way she handles the topic of black women's worth in a capitalist society is both analytical and deeply personal. It’s a provocative read that might rub some people the wrong way, but that’s exactly what good social criticism is supposed to do. She doesn't just write essays; she constructs arguments that demand a response from the reader.

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Game

The chapter on Miley Cyrus and the Grammys was a total eye-opener for me. Cottom uses pop culture as a Trojan horse to discuss much larger, more systemic issues regarding the vulnerability of black girls and the construction of whiteness. I’ll admit that her writing style is unapologetically academic, which might be a turn-off if you’re looking for a light beach read. Truth is, she demands that you meet her on her level, and I appreciated that she didn't simplify her arguments for the sake of accessibility. It’s a brilliant, sharp, and often funny exploration of what it means to be a black woman in America today.

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Suthee

As someone who rarely reads sociology, I found this collection both intimidating and deeply moving. The balance between personal memoir and structural analysis is handled with such skill, especially in the essays concerning class mobility and the 'capitalist logic' of beauty. Not gonna lie, I had to look up a few terms, but that’s part of the appeal of reading someone this brilliant. She challenges you to think about how power operates in the most mundane aspects of our lives. My only minor gripe is that some essays felt a bit dated in their specific political references, but the underlying theories are still incredibly relevant and sharp.

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Hassan

This collection is undeniably smart, but I struggled with the tone at times. Cottom makes it very clear that she isn't interested in persuading anyone who doesn't already share her foundational worldview, which can make the reading experience feel a bit like being lectured rather than being invited into a dialogue. Her critique of David Brooks and the 'deli meat' metaphor was funny, though it felt a bit like punching down given her obvious intellectual superiority. Look, if you’re looking for a comfortable read, this isn’t it. It’s provocative and often dismissive of outside critics, yet the core observations about classism and whiteness are too sharp to ignore entirely.

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Tippawan

Not what I expected based on the glowing reviews. I found the writing to be incredibly impenetrable and so dense that my eyes started glazing over by the second essay. I appreciate that she’s a sociology professor, but the academic jargon felt like a barrier rather than a bridge to her ideas. Frankly, I think I’m just too frivolous for this kind of work, as I struggled to stay engaged with the theoretical frameworks she uses to explain everyday experiences. It’s clearly a smart book written by a very smart person, but it felt more like a series of lectures than a cohesive collection of essays for a general reader.

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Questions about this book

It is a collection of essays in which sociologist Tressie McMillan Cottom uses her position as a working-class Black woman as a lens on American society. She argues that racism, sexism and classism work together, shaping who is believed by doctors, who gets space in newspapers, who is protected from abuse and who is seen as beautiful. Her central claim is that patriarchy cannot be beaten without also beating racism and capitalism.

Thick description is a social science idea: a behavior only makes sense in its context. McMillan Cottom gives the example of a woman crying at her mother’s funeral versus a woman crying at her daughter’s graduation. She uses the term in two ways, applying research methods to behavior in context and treating her own thick, too-much position as a Black woman as a lens that reveals how society works.

She argues that status symbols buy belonging, and belonging opens doors to jobs, housing and services. As a child she watched her mother dress in a camel cape, boots and pearls to win child care benefits for a neighbor in one afternoon after a year of refusals. Later, a manager told McMillan Cottom that her name brand interview suit showed she belonged.

It suits readers interested in an intersectional view of feminism, and professionals who make judgments about other people, such as managers, editors, teachers and medical staff. Its essays on maternal health, newspaper opinion pages, beauty standards and the Obama and Trump elections give concrete cases for discussing race, class and gender together rather than one at a time.

McMillan Cottom’s practical advice is to seek out voices of people unlike you, especially those facing racism, misogyny and poverty, so you become aware of your own privilege. In daily life that can mean taking people seriously when they describe their own pain, checking whose concerns get space on your agendas and reading lists, and noticing how much weight you give to polish and appearance.

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