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The Procrastination Cure: 7 Steps to Stop Putting Life Off

Shows why chronic delay is driven by feelings such as shame, fear and anger rather than poor scheduling, and how to recognize your own pattern, loosen its grip and finally begin the work.

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If you keep missing the start dates you set for yourself, the problem is probably not your calendar. In The Procrastination Cure, coach Jeffery Combs argues that chronic delay is an emotional pattern, fed by shame, fear or anger, and that any pattern can change once you can see it clearly.

Combs has coached more than 12,000 clients and calls himself a recovering procrastinator. His cases come from people stuck where many of us get stuck: a screenplay that never leaves draft, a new career that never quite begins, a tax return ignored for fifteen years.

His central claim is that beating procrastination depends far more on handling your feelings than on handling your hours. He sorts procrastinators into three familiar types, the perfectionist, the worrier and the rebel, and offers each a way out. Then he adds two daily habits aimed at the body and at loneliness. By the end, you can name the feeling that holds you back and choose a first move against it.

One woman avoided a single annual chore for so long that she stopped sleeping. Her story shows what procrastination really is, and why the usual fixes for it so often miss the point.

Some of the smartest people you know only produce their best work the night before it is due. Combs explains what that last-minute rush is really doing for them, and how to stop needing it.

A salesman spent nearly three years getting ready for a new career, attending everything and meeting everyone. He was never idle, yet he was procrastinating the whole time. The reason is easy to miss in yourself.

Some people put things off because, deep down, they feel the task is beneath them. Combs knows this pattern from the inside, and his way out runs through a step that seems to have nothing to do with work.

The daily habits Combs recommends against procrastination have nothing to do with planners or timers. They work on two things most productivity advice ignores entirely, and they make the next task feel smaller.

Combs’s book adds up to a different picture of the procrastinator. Not a lazy person, and not a poor planner, but someone protecting themselves from a feeling. The protection works for a while, then starts charging interest: in penalties and debt, in years of preparation, and, for the woman with the fifteen-year tax return, in nights without sleep.

What changes things is naming which feeling you are protecting. If it is the fear of not being good enough, write tomorrow’s list tonight and make it smaller than feels comfortable, so finishing becomes normal. If it is fear of the unknown, find the one step you keep circling, the equivalent of John’s first client call, and take it while still afraid. If it is resentment, look for the person you have not forgiven, which may be you. And on the hard days, loosen the body and spend time with someone in person before you sit down to work.

Combs does not promise a fast fix, and he admits that deep habits take time. His point is that the task you keep avoiding is rarely as heavy as the feeling you have attached to it.

About this book

What is this book about?

Most advice on procrastination is about tricks: hide the phone, block the apps, lock the fridge. Jeffery Combs, a coach who has worked with more than 12,000 clients and calls himself a recovering procrastinator, argues that tricks rarely reach the real cause. In his view, chronic delay grows out of emotions, and the cure starts with knowing which emotion is in charge. Combs describes three patterns he meets again and again. The perfectionist is ruled by shame and the fear of not being good enough. The worrier is ruled by fear and keeps preparing instead of acting. The rebel is ruled by resentment and resists work that feels beneath them. Each pattern gets its own way out, from a deliberately modest daily list to accepting risk and practicing forgiveness. He adds two daily habits that most readers will not expect: releasing tension held in the body, and breaking out of isolation by spending more time with people face to face. Readers learn to name what really stops them and to take a first, imperfect step today.

Book Information

Rating:

Genre:

Personal Development, Productivity & Time Management

Topics:

Emotion Regulation, Procrastination

Publisher:

Red Wheel/Weiser

Language:

English

Narrator:

Peter

First published:

October 14, 2010

Pages:

213

Length:

11 min 21 sec

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Who it's for

  • Perfectionists stuck in drafts

    Talented perfectionists whose projects stay in draft until a deadline forces them out.

  • Career changers stuck preparing

    Career switchers who keep preparing, studying and networking but never take the first real step.

  • Leaving dull tasks undone

    Professionals who resent dull tasks and leave them undone, and anyone losing sleep over chores they avoid.

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About the Author

Jeffery Combs

Jeffery Combs has worked as a coach since 1998 and has personally guided more than 12,000 clients. He founded Golden Mastermind Seminars, Inc., speaks at events across the United States and has a background in network marketing and direct sales training. After 14 years of addiction and alcoholism he got sober, and he describes himself as a recovering procrastinator. His other books include More Heart Than Talent and The Breakthrough Factor.

Ratings & Reviews

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4.4

Overall score based on 780 ratings.

What people think

Listeners find that although viewpoints differ regarding the author’s non-traditional medical and psychological suggestions, many value how the work explores the underlying emotional causes of self-sabotage. Furthermore, they appreciate the hands-on methods for defeating avoidance, like dividing projects into tiny pieces, and one listener pointed out that the 15-minute task rule is especially useful. Additionally, listeners feel that categorizing various types of procrastinators gives useful insight for individual development. They also highlight that the featured procrastination test and daily goal-setting activities provide a practical guide for transforming how one handles productivity habits.

Top reviews

Somrutai

Wow. Most books on this topic just give you planners and timers, but Combs goes for the jugular: your emotions. This isn't just about time management; it’s about healing the parts of you that feel 'not enough.' I’ve read a dozen books on productivity, yet this is the first one that made me address my fear of rejection. The breakdown of the different types of procrastinators—especially the chronic worrier—helped me understand my own patterns of over-preparation. The 15-minute rule is so simple it’s brilliant. I’ve already seen a huge difference in my daily output just by focusing on small, achievable actions. Sure, the writing is a bit casual and some parts are repetitive, but the impact on my mindset has been profound. If you are tired of the same old 'just do it' advice, this is the deep dive you need. It’s transformative for anyone willing to do the inner work.

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Pang

Picking this up was the best thing I did for my career this year. The focus on shame and fear as the real culprits behind my delay was life-changing. I used to think I was just lazy, but now I see the 'neurotic perfectionist' inside me that was too afraid to start. The 15-minute task rule has become my go-to strategy whenever I feel the urge to check my phone. It’s practical, actionable, and addresses the root cause rather than just the symptoms. I actually liked the quiz at the end; it gave me a concrete way to measure my progress. While the author has some unique opinions on health, his core message about emotional regulation is spot on. This book provided the shift in perspective I desperately needed to stop dreaming and start doing. It’s a must-read for anyone who feels stuck in a cycle of avoidance and regret.

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Pensuda

Finally got around to reading this, and while the cartoons are absolutely bizarre, the section on the neurotic perfectionist hit home. As someone who has always struggled with 'getting ready to get ready,' seeing that behavior described as a form of fear was eye-opening. The author correctly points out that perfectionism is often just a mask for inadequacy. I’ve started implementing the 15-minute rule when I feel overwhelmed, and it has genuinely helped me tackle my inbox. To be fair, you have to ignore some of the weirder tangents about chiropractors and 'telepathic' emotions. If you can filter out the fluff, the core message about managing your heart rather than your clock is powerful. It’s not a perfect book, and it definitely needs a more professional tone. Still, the psychological insights into self-sabotage make it worth the time. It helped me move from 'draft' mode to actually finishing my projects.

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Bam

Truth is, I didn't think I needed a 'cure' until I took the 40-question quiz at the back. It revealed how much I rely on adrenaline rushes from looming deadlines to actually function. The 'adrenaline junkie' description fit me perfectly, and it was a bit of a wake-up call. I liked that the book doesn't just give you more apps to download but asks you to look at why you're afraid. The practical strategies for overcoming avoidance, like breaking projects into tiny increments, are easy to start immediately. I do think the book is a bit bloated, and some of the author's personal anecdotes feel like humble bragging. However, the actionable roadmap for reinventing productivity habits is there if you look for it. It helped me realize that being 'busy' with preparation isn't the same as being productive. A solid, albeit slightly eccentric, guide.

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Bae

As someone who identifies as a 'rebellious procrastinator,' seeing my resentment mapped out was painful but necessary. I always thought I was just being independent, but Combs argues it's actually a passive-aggressive way of avoiding failure. That hit hard. The book does a great job of explaining the emotional roots of self-sabotage, moving beyond simple 'to-do' lists. I appreciated the focus on physical relaxation and yoga as a way to ease the anxiety that causes delay. Yes, some of the medical advice is off-the-wall, and the 12-step influence is very heavy. But if you can look past the quirks, there is real wisdom here about forgiveness and letting go of anger. It’s a very human look at a frustrating habit. I’m definitely feeling more in control of my schedule now. It’s a bit of a diamond in the rough, provided you don’t mind the rough.

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Harper

The 15-minute task rule is actually a lifesaver, yet I had to trudge through a swamp of filler to find it. This book is a classic example of a good idea stretched way too thin. There are seven types of procrastinators listed, and while identifying as a 'chronic worrier' helped me, the chapters describing them are incredibly repetitive. Do we really need a 10-CD set plug in the middle of a chapter? It felt like a sales pitch at times. However, the emotional focus is a nice change of pace from standard time-management books. Understanding that my delay comes from shame rather than laziness was a bit of a breakthrough. I just wish the author had a better editor to trim the fat and remove the odd health tips. It's a decent read if you're willing to skim through the nonsense to get to the practical bits.

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Pooja

Ever wonder why you can't just 'do' the work you planned? This book identifies the emotional blockage well enough, but it gets lost in its own weeds. I appreciated the classification of the 'rebel' procrastinator because I finally saw my own resentment toward authority reflected in my work habits. That self-awareness is valuable for personal growth, even if the surrounding text is a bit 'woo-woo.' The truth is, most of this could have been a single long-form article. The daily goal-setting exercises are solid, but they aren't exactly revolutionary. I found the 40-question quiz at the end to be the most useful part of the entire experience. It gave me a clear roadmap of where I'm at, even if the journey there was bumpy. It’s an okay book for a weekend read, but don’t expect a scientific masterpiece. Use it as a starting point, not a bible.

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Layla

After hearing some hype, I decided to give this a shot, but the weird medical advice really threw me off. The author claims that neurotic perfectionists often wear glasses and that passivity is genetic, which just feels like nonsense pulled out of thin air. It gets even worse when he starts stigmatizing pharmaceutical help for anxiety, calling it the 'easy way out.' That kind of rhetoric is harmful to people actually struggling with clinical conditions. The book is also surprisingly sexist in how it characterizes mothers as 'meek rebels' addicted to disappointment. While the advice on setting modest daily goals is somewhat practical, it doesn’t justify the price of the book. The middle section dragged on for far too long with repetitive stories about the author's coaching clients. Frankly, it’s a lot of fluff mixed with some very questionable personal beliefs. I expected a toolkit, but I got a sermon.

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Owen

Not what I expected from a productivity book. Combs spends way too much time on 12-step analogies and 'The Secret' style manifesting rather than actual work habits. The book is riddled with typos and repeats entire paragraphs in Chapter 9, which made it feel rushed and unpolished. I really hated the cartoons; they added nothing and felt like they were just there to pad the page count. Why are we talking about Pizza Hut parking lots as character-building experiences in a professional development book? It felt very 'bro-science' at points, especially with the weird left-brain/right-brain junk science. Some of the core ideas about fear of failure are okay, but they aren’t original. You can find better versions of this advice in almost any other self-help book without the weird baggage. It’s a disappointing read for anyone looking for serious, evidence-based strategies.

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Look

Seriously, what was the editor doing here? This book is a chaotic mess of pseudo-scientific claims about chiropractic care and 'telepathic' emotions that have no place in a productivity guide. I found the suggestion to get monthly X-rays for better focus to be both bizarre and dangerous. Between the repetitive chapters and the insulting cartoons, it felt more like a self-published manifesto than a professional career resource. While the 12-step approach might work for some, it felt forced and lacked any real empirical evidence here. Most of the 'types' described were over-generalized, and the writing style was clunky at best. To be fair, there are a few tiny nuggets of decent advice, but they are buried under mountains of garbage. It is frustrating to pay for a book that reads like a collection of disorganized blog posts. Save your money and just look up the 15-minute rule online instead.

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Questions about this book

Jeffery Combs argues that chronic procrastination is an emotional pattern rather than a time management problem. People delay to escape uncomfortable feelings, mainly shame, fear and anger, and the delay ends up creating discomfort of its own. The cure is to recognize which emotion is driving you, learn to let it go, and support that change by easing tension in your body and building closer connections with other people.

Combs describes three patterns. The neurotic perfectionist is ruled by shame and the fear of not being good enough, and often works only under deadline pressure. The chronic worrier is ruled by fear and keeps over-preparing, which Combs calls getting ready to get ready. The rebellious procrastinator is ruled by resentment and resists tasks that seem trivial or beneath them, often while blaming others.

First, recognize that perfectionism is often tied to old feelings of shame and inadequacy, then slowly build the belief that you are already enough. In practice, value starting and finishing over perfection. Each evening, write a short list of tasks you can complete tomorrow, break larger tasks into one-day pieces, and keep cutting the list until it is truly modest.

Combs suggests two. The first is caring for the body, since fear and anxiety show up as a stiff neck, tight jaw or sore back; massage, chiropractic care, yoga, tai chi or martial arts can help release that tension. The second is escaping isolation by spending less time online and more time with people in person. Both pull you out of anxious what-if thinking and back to the task at hand.

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